A rant, if I may

The two people on my friends list who know me will know I love my mom but we don't always have the best relationship. This hasn't been a good year in many ways; my husband was in a serious accident a few months ago  and was in a coma for over a month. He woke up thankfully but is still undergoing physical therapy for injuries to his arms and leg. I had our son last December and have been helping him through the teething process and he's now walking. I'm also  helping my younger brothers with problems they have. I didn't answer one text from one brother last night because I was exhausted and my mom acts like I'm completely neglecting my brother, and I should feel terrible. I spent over an hour cooking soup for them all, brought them the food, and she acted like I eat way too much when I barely ate at all. I'm the eldest daughter in my family and have been helping take care of my younger brothers to some extent since they were born; I love them deeply and they didn't complain. It was my mom's attitude that just pissed me off. It feels like fro the minute I wake up until I lay down I have little time to do much of anything for myself and she still acts like I don't do anything.