So my boy bsf had a couple dreams of me and him as a family while he was out of it in the hospital… idk if he’s giving signs of a crush or not?? I talked to my bf about it and he’s not given any advice about it and told me it dosent bother him but it kinda weirds me out a little bit because the dreams were very detailed and he sounded happy while telling me about them. Any advice on this please!!
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swagilicious
i think he maybe does have a crush on you.. and i would be weirded out too, especially if they know you're already dating someone (i'm assuming)
eternalikon
i think he’s trying to allude to having a crush on you. if he wasn’t, personally, i think he wouldn’t share that sort of thing. seeing as you have a boyfriend and he knows (i assume), i think it’s strange behavior to share something like that with you considering him knowing you’re not single. unless you have an interest in him, i would make it very clear that you are happy with your boyfriend and don’t plan for that to change. my opinion though is that someone willing to try to break up a couple is generally not the best person to have a relationship with (rom/non-rom). there’s a chance he was just finding it humorous, but if he seemed happy telling it, odds are, he is one of those people who will be friends with someone until they think they have a shot at a relationship (ex. after a breakup). i would plainly ask him if he liked the idea of his dream materializing and if he says yes or beats around the bush i would tell him being friends isn’t a good idea anymore -since you have a bf, and keeping around someone who has a crush is disrespectful (imo). if he doesn’t (or says so), id just be mindful of his behavior and if it makes you uncomfortable again, i would have a similar talk and end the friendship.
this is just what i think based off of the information given, you might have a better response, but definitely never try to tolerate anything making you uncomfortable if it doesn’t have to be that way.