!`After it, stay friends?`

Just a point of view on the "staying as friends after being partners" I guess-

Okey.. so this is a topic I've been wanting to get out of my chest for quite the a bit. Do you ever wonder in how everything ended and just hear them say: "We can still stay as friends" .. Because.. friends?. After all those nights, all those given words, all those moments.. shrink into something so small like if it never happened? And I guess we just try to act okey with it since maybe we ended things in a friendly manner, but, maybe really do accept because losing them completely feels even worse then it. But.. that kind of friendship, after just all that. At the end it will only slowly be a way to hurt yourself.. It's different for everyone, but this my why, my why I always stay away and close a bit the door when it comes to letting someone go like this. I still have to work on it, and this is just my point of view over all this. Ofc I never shut the door with a lock, but I will just not be comfortable staying as friends after all those feelings. Feels like offering friendship may be kind, but it only worsens the leaving part. Doesn't feel like so, feels uncomfortable, to stay and watch them go with the self of the own being just there, that feeling on staying in a spot were your feeling just don't belong anymore. Or maybe I'm just stupid for thinking so. 

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