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Am I a dick?

Okay so. Today (Yesterday; it's 1 AM), my friend's sister called me to talk to me about an idea she had for a game we both like. I had just woken up, so I missed her call. I texted her, hoping we'd stick to texting, but she really wanted to call, so we did. We talked for a good hour before my friend came to see who her sister was talking to, and her sister tried to hide the fact that we were on the phone. For some reason, my friend has a huge issue with her sister and me talking to each other, but we had called before, so I didn't see any harm in us chatting for a bit while my friend was in the bath. Well, apparently there was harm.

I ended up hanging up and calling my friend instead because me and her sisters conversation was pretty much over; my friend had tried to call me a few minutes prior, but I didn't see it. She was fine when we started talking, but when she found out her sister and I were chatting for a bit, she got really upset. I told her that her sister was showing me game fanart ideas and some yearbook stuff, and that was it, because that was it. Apparently that wasn't a good enough answer.

Now, she's been really rude to her sister and dismissive of me. I don't want to come off as all "woe is me" and shit, but she knows I'm sensitive and overthink little actions, so she's been talking about her other friends she just met and how close they are. and I mean whatever, I'm glad she has other firends but she knows I don't and she knows how I get and she knows how I feel when she uses nicknames I gave to her on other people.


I know I'm a jack-ass, we've established that, but why am I being punished for simply calling someone? It's not like me, my friend, and her sister don't talk to each other when I'm on the phone with my friend, so what's the deal? They started arguing about it, and I tried to put my two cents in, and all I got was, "Shut up, Malcolm; you answered the phone," yes? I answer the phone when I'm being called??? 

"What about all the times you've missed my calls?"

I was busy. I get busy. And you know what? Sometimes I just don't wanna talk. Sometimes I just wanna lie in bed and not talk and enjoy my day off in silence. Is that such a crime that I don't want to talk??? We still text every day and call almost every day, so what? It's not like I wasn't gonna call her; I was, but she was busy, so I chatted with someone else. 

Sue me, hang me, take ownership of my submissive figure. No master, I'll never do it again. Please don't leave me. I'm such a baddddd boyyyy, ugh. I'm so sorry my submission is lesser that your other adored few.

Anyways. Am I the dick? asshole? Let me know. I feel like one, so yeah. I'm going to bed now; I gotta wake up at 7 to make it up to my friend. 

btw this in no way means I hate my friend; she's awesome. I'm just a little frustrated with her. thought? 

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Can it be possible that she's afraid you'll be more close to her sister rather than her? maybe she's just afraid of losing you? or maybe there's some romantic feelings involved ıdk