annoyed :/

This is probably a big nothing burger to most people but I'm getting really annoyed at work with customers thinking I'm a guy. For a little context I work in retail in a very conservative state, but I get suuuuper irritated when I have customers immediately address me with typically masculine vocabulary. I don't typically care about shit like this and I feel crazy just typing it out, but I have been trying for the last couple years to try and embrace my feminine side after years of being ashamed of it. However, since I moved to 'The Big City' as my family would say I have been CONSTANTLY misgendered. IDK... I don't really dress more one way or the other, I'm not very well endowed chest-wise, and I have a pretty deep voice for a woman so I guess I get it but it's so annoying that I've done so much personal work and it just feels like its all for nothing...