BE CHALANT!

It's cool to care! Be sensitive! Feel those emotions! Let it all out! Don't fall for the 'nonchalant' propaganda! You're probably so cool and awesome by just being yourself! The 'nonchalant' propaganda is just as ridiculous as saying "Oh I won't look good in this cause of how big I am" Wear that gorgeous sexy dress! And be Chalant! If you actually care about people and show interest even when you have no interest at the start then you may gain interest or you may boost their confidence! You never know till you try! Don't conform to their standards of not caring about anything to look 'cool' you're so cool by just being ridiculous! Not ridiculous as in the annoying rude and insensitive jokes that typically little boys and immature older boys make to seem cool but instead your actual personality and shine! You shine! Everyone shines! You just have to stop crawling into the asscrack of expectations and standards so you can be where the sun actually does shine down on you!!! This weird little nonchalant thing on the media has been bothering me ever since it started but now since I discovered this website I might as well blog about it on here. You shouldn't live life stuck in a box of despair and loneliness just cause someone once said you're at a ten and you need to quiet down to a three. Go and be loud! Be whimsical! Dance! Shout! Scream the lyrics to "One last time" by Ariana Grande for no reason! I find that the best people are the people that stand out in some way,not necessarily a bad way but instead a way that makes you do a double take whether they have a cool top or streamers in their hair on a random monday,stand out in life on purpose and you'll make it a lot more worth the stay. XOXO MEII