Being trans

deepest apologies if some of this sounds like I'm trying to erase women's rights I'm not the best at phrasing sometimes please bare with me on this

I just hate it when I'm venting about dysphoria and I'm hit with the "But you're so beautiful how could you hate your body?" or "But I would kill to be built like you" or some shit like that. its hard to take that as a real compliment when I'm venting about hating the "perfect feminine body" I have. Thankfully, I have been passing as male more frequently, and since I have, I've been understanding that women are still toxic to men as much as men are toxic to women. men are more privileged by our standards (because they are) but our fuck-ass social standards view women as weaker and defenseless, people viewing me as male will brush off women being shit heels because "It's just a girl". also it's "ok" for grown ass women to make weird comments about me now because I should get over it as a man :(. like, I know your struggle ladies, been there done that. but I'm learning more and more about how it doesn't matter what gender you really are because its unfair for both parties :( 

I will say, i'm not trying to make it sound like its easy for women because it does still suck and this is MY PERSONAL EXPERIENCE and my opinions. In our government standards, men are definitely given more leeway, but women shouldn't use that to be assholes.