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I don’t think you’re a bad person for feeling this way. Having a crush on someone who’s already in a relationship can happen, and feelings aren’t always something we can control. But I think the most important thing is to respect the fact that he has a girlfriend right now, even if you feel like you two would be a better match. Sometimes we only see the connection we have with someone, but we don’t always know what their relationship is like behind the scenes. The fact that they’re different or don’t seem very close doesn’t necessarily mean they don’t care about each other. I’d say try not to compare yourself to her, because it can hurt you and create unnecessary drama.
If he ever becomes single and you still feel the same way, then maybe you can see where things go. For now, I’d just enjoy the friendship and keep some boundaries so you don’t end up getting hurt. Also, the fact that you’re thinking about what’s right instead of just trying to get between them shows you care ≧◠ᴥ◠≦ |
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you might be the better fit but it doesnt change the fact that he has a gf. if you dont back off that makes you the girl who knowingly destroyed a relationship(which didnt have much problem other than not meeting each others vibe that much) imo if they really dont match they will break up, and if then you still have feelings for him you can do whatever. |
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