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Okay okay so for me it was basically whenever I pictured dating a man, I just wasn’t interested or wasn’t AS interested as if it was a woman. Like, if I were to picture spending my life with a man, it felt like something would be missing, or I would be missing out. But when I pictured my life with a woman, it felt more complete, and like I actually wanted it. Like, I still find men visibly attractive, I have eyes, if you’re pretty, you’re pretty. But I realised I wanted to be with a woman in ALL the moments, all the little “insignificant” moments, I wanted to share with a woman. Idk if this is even helpful, or even I’ve fully figured it out yet. But take as long as you need, I know it’s annoying not fully knowing who you are, but take it as it comes, whoever you love, you love :) (rambled quite a bit about probably nothing helpful, but I wish you good luck) |
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Thank you so much for this! I definitely relate to all this particularly the part about still finding men attractive, in fact ive been looking into this thing called aesthetic attraction which really helped me. Since posting this ive decided to ditch putting a name to it and currently just identify as unlabelled, maybe one day ill be comfortable enough to embrace a label but for now im content and as you put it perfectly: loving who i love. I cannot sincerely express again how thankful i am for your "rambling" because, even though im still uncertain, it is helpful knowing someone listened and took the time and care to think up a response. :)Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â
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You’re so sweet omg! And I’m so glad you’re not stressed over feeling like you have to find a label <3
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