okie so basically i need help from lesbians who thought they were bi until they realised they were actually going through comphet because i cannot for the life of me figure out whether i myself am going through that or if i just have a HEAVY and i mean heavy preference for women đ”âđ«
tips on how you realised you were lesbian are very much appreciated (and needed) please
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Okay okay so for me it was basically whenever I pictured dating a man, I just wasnât interested or wasnât AS interested as if it was a woman. Like, if I were to picture spending my life with a man, it felt like something would be missing, or I would be missing out. But when I pictured my life with a woman, it felt more complete, and like I actually wanted it. Like, I still find men visibly attractive, I have eyes, if youâre pretty, youâre pretty. But I realised I wanted to be with a woman in ALL the moments, all the little âinsignificantâ moments, I wanted to share with a woman. Idk if this is even helpful, or even Iâve fully figured it out yet. But take as long as you need, I know itâs annoying not fully knowing who you are, but take it as it comes, whoever you love, you love :) (rambled quite a bit about probably nothing helpful, but I wish you good luck)Â
Thank you so much for this! I definitely relate to all this particularly the part about still finding men attractive, in fact ive been looking into this thing called aesthetic attraction which really helped me. Since posting this ive decided to ditch putting a name to it and currently just identify as unlabelled, maybe one day ill be comfortable enough to embrace a label but for now im content and as you put it perfectly: loving who i love. I cannot sincerely express again how thankful i am for your "rambling" because, even though im still uncertain, it is helpful knowing someone listened and took the time and care to think up a response. :)Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â
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Youâre so sweet omg! And Iâm so glad youâre not stressed over feeling like you have to find a label <3
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