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I think the confusion is just because of how non-genuine the culture around us is. Like nice vs kind.

Like, I was raised around a lot of very nice but superficial people, so that mindset was very normalized. My family is super genuine tho, so we always gave out very genuine or specific compliments.  Now, if I'm talking to a classmate and I compliment them, they mistake it for flirting because I try to be specific and enthusiastic.

Your only crime here may be that you're too kind, lol



awh man does that mean i have to turn super nonchalant

by gunmetal; ; Report

Stay swaggy!! Never give up!! :shakefist:

by N00DL3-C4T; ; Report

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if you want to seem less like youre flirting be more chill i guess? like just 'dudee your hair is really cool i like it a lot' or whatever

i mean some people take anything as flirting even when it isnt so you cant really fix it. i think the way you compliment people is fine and obviously not flirting but some people just cant tell

and as for the future love of your life i sure hope they'd be clear with you about that kind of thing



aww so i have to be more like low-key when giving out compliments i guess?
ALSO ALSO thank you very much for your input it is very much appreciated!!

by gunmetal; ; Report

no worries man, i struggle with that kind of thing too sigh

im someone whos extremely uncomfortable with flirting so to avoid that my personal advice is dont mention sexual things with strangers. be nice when you compliment someone and dont sound thirsty (even as a joke) good luck lol

by alexanderspoison; ; Report

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why don't u just date one of ur fans Alvin



deleted my first reply cause i did a typo and i was embarrassed but what i meant to say is that im never gonna beat the alvin and the chipmunks allegations arent i?

by gunmetal; ; Report

im pointing and laughing at ur typo

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