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this!! omg you're so right. things have been like this for a while now but its been getting worse with ai and such



ai is SO killing creativity and teaching people that they cant rely on themselves and always need help even though human are capable of doing wonders really and older civilisations show it.

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Times are always changing. People have always conformed, styles have always evolved, changed, adjusted, returned. I'd like to pay devils advocate here by challenging your worldview. Why is a white wall, or long lashes, considered basic and what do you define as maximalist? I could argue that people who need to have many items to showcase their interests to others is simply consumerist and sheep-like. I don't think a white wall is basic. A white wall is a white wall. An object has no life force or energy unless that thing is living. A plant lives. Clay is alive. Soil is alive. A polyester dress isn't alive. An Acrylic poster isn't alive. Things are things. And things are only as important as the amount of emphasis you place on them. A white wall to you could be basic, while having a different meaning to someone else. I do understand the gist of your post though and humans being social we tend to monkey see monkey do unless there's a smart human who is able to override their biological and social programming. There has been a grey/white wall trend for a while but I'd argue that the 'whimsy' core cultures you see online are just as basic and I'd also argue that while you think by engaging with these online communities that you're different or rebellious you're actually just conforming to another group instead of exploring and developing parts of yourself. Before the internet there were magazines, newspapers, television. Supermodels making young girls insecure, brainwashing in the media, ads in the magazines. The internet now is a bigger, more evolved beast and is not the internet of the 90s/late 2010s. People typically parrot talking points and social media in particular is one big echo chamber. Kids need to play outside and people need to spend less time on their phone for sure.



you make things alive by giving them meanings so if you use things that dont reflect your mindset, what is the point of it? its soulless but if it shows what you love, what your soul is attracted to, then its a part of you it has a part of your soul.
i think a white wall is basic because it does not show your un-basic and unique soul's interests. we are all consumers on this planet, we've been on earth for thousands of years, and most (not all) people with the mindset i do have use already used items, like recycling so we dont over consume, we just store already consumed media in our space instead of the ocean.
i saw you talk about me watching whimsy stuff online but you dont know me, im not allowed to have social media, and ive been whimsical my whole life and my mindset never changed, i just started using social media in secret like a year ago and i found that im not weird as everyone ik says and there are people like me out there and that im not wrong as ive been told i was my whole life. 
exactly, media has always been influencing people not just the internet, but back then you had alot of options even if some were hated on but you see them everywhere, a punk magazine next to an elegant paris magazine, you had choice, but now its one trend everyone sees so everyone does, there is no options, the algorithm forces you to see the popular, so how can anyone find options?


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Music isn't soulless, you're using drake for an example when he is a huge musician, dig deep and find "niche" musicians/bands. Rap has always cursed or talked about women, The Geto Boys We Can't Be Stopped album literally talks about how women think they need men to be a gentleman for them, calling them bitches and saying they act handicapped with how they want men to open doors or pull up chairs for them and that was 1991. Rap has always had explicit lyrics no matter the year. If you want rap that DOESN'T talk about women like that, listen to Public Enemy, they're political and protest. Gang Starr is another good one that doesn't talk like that, they do exist.


        There are musicians out there who do truly care about what music they're making and do put hard work into it. When The Beatles came out, they were hated for being "heavy" or "inappropriate" for their time, yes they were huge and helped pave the way for a new music era. Music changes over time and the previous bands/current ones help change it. Korn and Limp bizkit got popular, made nu metal and mu metal had a surge of nu metal popularity, so yes this era of music will sound similar, it'd be annoying if it was 1999 and all day i heard the same sounding nu metal bullshit. 


   You might just prefer older music and that's okay, everyone has tastes. I prefer older music but I'm still open to listening to new music, I might not like it when it comes to newer metal, hardcore or rap but I do enjoy newer pop or some shit like Lana Del Ray.  

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uhh you know what the coolest people do? not shit on other people even if they're 'basic'.. judging peoples styles and music taste only brings more negativity into the world (and besides.. most people just want to wear comfortable clothing in their day-to-day.)

music isnt soulless now ?!? what are 'plain lyrics' to you, and why should everyone care if YOU dont find the sound of their music appealing?? you want kids to love poetry and life but now youre judging them for the music they like and calling it 'overglazing'? just because you dont like their music doesnt make it not 'real art'

kids have ALWAYS been influenced by other people even before the internet. there were magazines and shit, there was tv. of course they want to be cool, thats why theyre following trends in the first place just like the kids of the past!!!

obviously theres discussions to be had about people who really dont seem to have an identity of their own and jump from trend to trend, and i also dont think people should judge others for straying from the norm... but judging them right back isnt really the way to go is it? the past was NOT so much better than the present.



in fashion i was talking about people who dress in a way that doesnt show any of their personality and judges people who has style and wants to show their interests (which ive dealt with personally and alot of my online friends from all over the world)

and yes music now is soulless, drake for example, he sound like he is drunk or sleeping unlike old music, people who put their soul and experience, and im not hating on rap cuz old rap (90s-2010) were some good shi but "rappers" now are js spamming cusses and how much women can they bring. and once again i was talking about people who love this type of music and judge people who support real art (and yes im saying stuff today-not all- is overglazed.

i never mentioned poetry with kids, but yeah i want them to love life but love stuff worth of loving, i wont let my kids see someone talking abt degrading women in a song and his pants are half off and be like (they tuff man), if they are gonna be influenced then let them have options, in the past there were alot of options in magazines and tv, you can see the same store selling a magazine abt etiquette and Punk next to each other, you choose what you feel drawn to, but the internet now works on trends which is a singular influential movement EVERYONE follows, and thats not the type of influence we are seeking cuz there is no choice of choosing.

Im SURE the past wasnt better than now, today we have much more privileges and equal rights (starting) but we can be better, we can have both. 

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