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im ngl u better cut tht loser shit out like deadass . if ur acknowledging the hate it'll get u its better to lock ts away until u get to college cs ts is actually weird asf n like no body wants to be around that like at all :p do not b urself if this is how u are and if u don't wanna be bullied this is the equivalent of telling homophobic parents ur gay and being surprised when they kick u out |
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The truth is, if someone is bullying you for expressing yourself in a certain way, they're projecting. Those people see someone else expressing themselves without any issues and then they get pissed off and start projecting their insecurities onto you. You should be able to express yourself without fear of getting bullied by some of your jackass peers but unfortunately we live in a world where something like that isn't very common. So, to answer your question if whether you should confirm to your peers standards to prevent from getting bullied or to express yourself in the way that you like.. The answer is to be yourself, yes middle schoolers can be a pain in the ass especially since they're going through puberty (saying that as an eighth grader). But you shouldn't have to confirm to your peers societal standards in order to prevent from getting bullied. I don't exactly know if this would help but if someone is calling you slurs over a shirt go tell an adult, whether if it's a teacher or your parents. But sometimes if that doesn't help, as a last resort you should handle the bullying YOURSELF. Also, NO you should not stay silent and just sit around watching. That's how bullying goes unnoticed, is when the person is too afraid to speak up so they just sit around watching themselves get made fun of by a bunch of kids with no empathy and full of prejudice and hate in their hearts. Overall, my tips would be to just ignore them because if they see that you don't care about what they say, then they're probably going to leave you alone. But if they don't leave you alone and the issue persists, you should let someone around you know about it. I'm sorry if my tips may seem a little rusty, I've never been bullied personally but I have seen some of my peers get bullied and it's just so disappointing, bullies are so cruel. Please whatever you do, try your best to stay safe. |
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its a rite of passage bro you just gotta get through it T_T |
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