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Alright , I don't know what to say but yeah I hope your week is gonna be nice and smoothly so far. Maybe the Server is just not in the right mood for whatever reason. But yeah hopefully that isn't gonna happen to you again anyway. |
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Honestly I think sometimes it's less about social anxiety and more about looking for welcoming and safe spaces! I'm also thrown when people are like that, but I don't see it as a problem with me either, I see it as I subconsciously went looking for safe and connected moments or comfortable and welcoming places to attend and they just aren't on that wavelength, for whatever reason and my emotions (feeling thrown and uncomfy at the time, but not wanting to change myself on the whole) are simply information to redirect me "this isn't what you're looking for, but keep looking!" and, in the moment, that "this is embarrassing" shut down can kinda be a good thing if it's reframed as "it's ok to pull back if I'm not getting the same energy back, because I don't want to waste mine" and then it can become a conscious decision "ok, wrong person, wrong place, no worries - i'll try others and other places" - because your energy is precious. Definitely don't stop being you! I'm glad you won't |
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who knows how long it will be till those damn hipsters start opening expensive millenial burger shops |
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Also love that image!
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