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I feel a very similar problem to you, although i kinda developed my solitary involuntary.. i was always pushed out of friend groups growing up or treated poorly by them if i stayed, so i naturally just stopped hanging out with people and never actually LEARNED to be social. I think separating yourself from the crowd for so long definitely does affect you as a person. I have such a hard time keeping up with people and i often have to force myself to communicate and stay in the loop because my social battery never needed TO exist. It’s really hard to begin to care for other people if you’ve only had to pay attention to yourself yk? i’ve only really started working on becoming social more recently and it’s not something that comes naturally to me at all, but i don’t think being anti-social is a curse. I think you just have to push yourself out of your norm for a while and exercise your social battery LOL it’s definitely exhausting but it’s been slowly working for me. It’s not a curse and you’re probably not a piece of shit LOL |
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