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YOUR A BEATIFUL HUMAN JUST WANTED YOU TO KNO THAT AND THANK YOU <3

I'm so sorry that the father of your child is not in the picture, and I'm so sorry he isn't doing his part in raising your child. That isn't fair to you or your child at all. 

I don't know if it brings you any peace, but I want to share from a perspective of an autistic person whose dad was not around: 

I do not forgive my father for not being around. I do not forgive him for tossing me aside and not being there for me. But you know who I do love? My mom. My mom was there for me. She was there for every knee scrape, bike fall, broken leg, health scare, mental health episode, the time I went to the mental hospital, homecoming, everything. She was there when I was accepted into college. She was there when my ex cheated on me and left me to the way side after 3 years of me and him living together. 

I may not have a father, but I have a mother who stepped up and was both parents at the same time. Your son may have more forgiveness in my heart than I do. He say forgive his father for not being there. But do you know what means more? A parent who is there, present, and shows up. Eventually as you age, you forget and feel less empty about the parent that's not there. You forget about the missed experiences, and instead remember the way the parent that was there, was there. 

Your son has a good mom, a great mom. A mom that's there, a mom that wants to be there, a mom who loves him. As he grows up, that will mean much more to him than a father who wasn't present.

Sending you lots of positive energy and wishing you the absolute best for you and your son.