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idk if this is the same, but before i realised i was aromantic, i had a crush on this girl, and we eventually started dating. it felt so real, so like.. new? it felt like all my previous crushes were 1% of the crush i felt for her. then, after a couple months of dating, that feeling faded. everything felt forced. i didnt understand romance. i was just doing what i thought i was supposed to do, not what felt right. we broke up about 1.5 months ago, and honestly, im glad we did. it would have harmed both of us in the long term if i had kept up the act that i loved her romantically, when i simply didnt. dont get me wrong, i valued her, and i careed about her, how she felt, etc. she meant a lot to me and still does, but i just didnt have that romantic connection. idk what the point of me typing this was, theres no magical advice or conclusion at the end for u to see, but i think we've had similar experiences. |
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