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as a queer 23 y/o with religious family. I understand the frustration with your relatives completely. I am not personally out to all of my family & only my parents + sister know about it (my parents choose to ignore it, thankfully my sister accepts me). I often hate hearing my relatives talk badly on anyone who is trans or queer. it hurts my heart because I always wonder if more of my family were to know would they hate me or speak of me the same? 
I keep my sanity by choosing to completely dismiss and ignore the things that my relatives comment on. I understand how difficult it is to & how easy it can be to be mad & irritated at ur relatives for their attitude. But its good to remember they don't control ur life or ur choices. and if you continue to let yourself linger on the negativity they show you, the more miserable you may become. I may be a stranger but I am rooting for your happiness of self!