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Bro, I had a similar situation, just with my mom. Unfortunately, if it doesn't sit right with you and they don't wanna talk about the problem, then there's no point staying with them anymore.
If they were more blunt, they'd have told you to fuck off already, 100%. Not cuz you're a bad person, but cuz you don't have any weight with them anymore - or never did. It's really sad, it hurts your soul, but unfortunately if they don't tell you to leave, they'll start using you.
It's sad, but it happens pretty often, and it's not your fault at all - life is just like that sometimes, and you gotta accept certain things and try to solve whatever problem you're facing. After many years, I finally found my first best friend, and I'm incredibly happy about it. And a best friend isn't the person YOU consider your best friend - it's the person who considers you their best friend TOO.
Unfortunately, I realized this pretty late, but after that realization, life gets so much easier and there are no problems at all when interacting. If your best friend is on their phone while you're talking, they can at least say 'I'm listening, go on,' do their stuff on the phone, then put it back in their pocket and keep listening, and ask you something about your monologue.
What I'm getting at: remember that you're not the piece of shit- you just ran into people like that, and try to beat yourself up at least 5 percent instead of 25. Everything will get better, no matter how bad it seems
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I wasn't expecting anyone to comment on this, but I'm extremely glad you did. Thanks for taking the time to write this, I'm very appreciative of this <3

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