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I don't know the situation with your husband, but I do understand the friend trying to one day consider his feelings and the next only considering yours. It seems like he's between a rock and a hard place, because he is seeing his friends ex-wife while also trying to maintain a friendship with that same friend. That is something that can become very messy for a person, and put all of you in an awkward spot. Some people can ignore their friends feelings, which is what he seems to be able to do some days, and some people just can't. 

I can't speak on what exactly to do, but what I can say is that you deserve someone who loves you. You deserve someone who wants to be with you all the time. You deserve to be with someone who wants YOU and ONLY you. If they are going back-and-forth and not committing, it means they don't really want you, and that's a sign you need to take your exit stage left. 

Sending you all my well wishes!

girl, just be happy do not give a fuck about that ex bastard of yours you deserve more!