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I don't think they should make you pick sides, it's definitely reasonable for you to be friends with both of them still (unless one of them did something really fucked up), but it could be really awkward. I agree that you should definitely try to understand both sides first and y they broke up, and then see what to do and how to handle the situation. I'm def relating to you rn, this school year has also been a lot for me already, including stuff with friends and things like that. But, I am actually a freshman, so it's been a huge change. I was wondering if you had any advice for me about this situation with my best friend of 2 years. We have been so close for about 2 years now and we even dated and it was a whole thing but we were fine like 4 months after and we became even closer friends I would say. But, recently, they have been totally ignoring me, not answering texts and it's just total radio silence from them. I know it's common for friendships to be lost from middle school into high school especially when you go to different schools. I was wondering if you had maybe gone through a similar experience like that at the beginning of high school, or maybe anything you wish you would've known as a freshman. Sorry if this is like a really long comment lmao it's also ok if you don't have any advice!!! thx