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dude. that is genuinely so weird, idrk what to say as like idk, I can't relate whatsoever. maybe try to make your stance clear somehow. so like be super *friendly* to them so they get the idea that you don't want anything more with any of them? in my head that's the best action to take here but I'm not 100% sure and how you can do that. like super friendzone them. or you could just call them out on their shit but personally I don't really think I would have the courage to do that and I'm assuming by how awkward you feel, I also think that confrontation isn't probably something you'd want to do. overall, my advice is to just super-friendzone both guys (this will also hopefully ensure your relationship with Ava doesn't break down if her bf really was flirting with u) and if you feel like its not working or if they go too far, don't be scared to just call it out. either it'll get awkward asf, which is better than your boundaries being crossed, or they'll just deny it and (probably) stop/play it off as smth else as an excuse. or, best-case scenario, they come clean. if I'm looking at this situation as 'glass half-full', if ava knew about your (previous) crush on Peter, they might have told this to ben and the guy and hatched a plan to get you two to date. however what Peter did was weird asf and if he's chill with doing that, I wouldn't rlly recommend u to get with him.. but I am just a stranger on the internet who doesn't know you or the guy. but from how you described the interaction, you seemed uncomfortable and I don't think anyone should date another person who makes them feel that way. I know I wrote quite a bit but yeah, hope it kinda helped?? |
Thanks so much for understanding!! Way better than Ava really, but I'm definitely going to stop them if they ever cross the line like that again, but it's hard because of the situation. And you are actually SO right about Ava telling Ben lol. I actually wrote about in another posts because I was pissed. He wanted to ship us together, but I do not think he knows I dont like Peter anymore...
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