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Hey, totally get that! I just to be unable to order a simple drink or pay at the register because my hands would start to tremble and my face would burn hot and red. I guess it depends on the person but for me...personally, the only thing that helped was putting myself out there. Experiencing the discomfort and learning how to navigate it until things started getting more comfortable. It took me a loooong time, but it was totally worth it. Hope this helped! ā¤ |
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hey!!! honestly I genuinely get what you mean and its super super annoying and hard to overcome this - but we can do this!!! I would say the best way to do it is to remind yourself that nothing lasts anyways. if you say a joke and it doesn't land its okay because no one will remember it!!! what they WILL remember is that an amazing person approached them for a convo <3333 you can do it! |
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Iām extremely socially awkward and my communication skills are non existent (in real life). But I once got this tip that you should just treat every conversation as if the person is a npc in a game lol |
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Hi! I am not really good with giving advice on this, as I am still learning to socialize more as well. |
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Hii!! I totally get where ur coming from, i use to be madddd like insecure and anxious and borderline paranoid when meeting new people but honestly girl ur best shot (which i found works for me) is just reminding urself that youre careless about what people think about you and that you like yourself so why wouldnt other people. Ik it sounds rather narcissistic and delusional but it truly does help you bring out ur true self right off the bat yk, got to #keep it real cuz yolo Idek if this will help i seem to be mindlessly yapping lol but MSG me if you wanna talk more about it!! TTYL xoxo |
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