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as someone who was literally part of the reason napo is a thing the discourse is so fucking stupid. goat and doc never shoulda launched the site in beta, nor should they have been spamming their promo to the top (ive said it so many times before but spacehey users never wanna hear it). it lead to so much shit involving both platforms that could have easily been avoided, and the only real good that came out of any of it is that so many users on spacehey stopped trying to pretend to be "better" than whoever they deemed the other side-- some of them sided with neonazis and legit cyberstalked and threatened to doxx people over this shit. i obviously think that napo's side of things has had its own damage done in the discourse as well, mainly the harassment of certain users who simply didnt like the site or were thought to be people they werent. there's also issues with two of the former moderators going rogue (one of which spreading misinfo about the site's staff and users). the problem is a lotta the spacehey users "criticizing" napo (read: hating, but making sure they look soooo much better than you for doing it) is that they dont actually care about whether or not anything they say is accurate, they care about making themselves look better. i explained that goat is the one who spammed post after post about the napo discourse from a few weeks back to the top and i got jumped for it by the same person, MULTIPLE TIMES, saying that i was wrong. i had leagues of proof i wasnt, but the person didnt care. when goat was demoted and banned, the FIRST THING i saw someone do is take it as a free opportunity to start spreading misinformation about the situation, and the only reason she didnt continue is because i immediately told her it was wrong (both under the comment she left on my page and her blog about it). the worst part is some of them are starting to do the same shit to FRW with nitpicking stuff they dont like about the site and claiming its ai, and probably more later down the line. TL/DR the discourse is stupid. spacehey users only ever want to address the issues with spacehey when it makes them look better, and napo's team had too many loose cannons running the site. the good news is no one's trying to bring the discourse here (the one guy who tried was goat, who tried to sweep his shit under the rug and blame literally everyone else lol) |
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its not too bad at napo if you ignore all the drama and block the bad people tbh, but it doenst have as much as friendrewind so i spend more time here. honestly, good speech, you deserve two kudos |
that's fair, thank you!! it is pretty incomplete in its current state but i was going into it expecting there to be no parity, considering it was pretty brand new made.
the thing was a few people i wanted to block were frequently on the top blogs, so i didn't know if that said something about me, or if it was just a sign maybe i wasn't going to fit in... i took the easy way out and just came here
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yeah unfortunately there is a lot of people everywhere who think they are better or complain alot or are very hateful, which sucks ass:[
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i think i have a honeypot on my hands 😭
by Twix; ; Report
RIPP well you know what? only the nice people get that honey pot of friendliness you have
by Mellon Collie; ; Report
fairrr
i have a feeling this post is gonna attract bait
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The thing about blocking those on top blogs is 100% relatable. It's the same people constantly posting about drama or that one loser on like 4 different sites and that guy constantly bots anything mentioning him to the top. I just gave up and blocked the main folk + deleted my account on there. I was tired of seeing it all
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real
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