Comments
|
i alrady see three comments and rad them thank you so much everyone i will reply individually once i get the energy, one more thing to mention, he invited me to his house and said two other ppl will be there but they were not, he says they said they will come but didnt. And also i dont know if he did that on purpose or not, i forgot to mention he said he wanted to hug me and that was an accident. Idk how to tell if it was actually an accident or not. Idk if this help when he invited me he invited me to sleep over and i said no since i dont know him well but i would like in the future when we become closer friends. My mom said he didnt mean it and it was a joke bc i asked how long i can stay and he said that i can sleep over as a joke answer. idk if me saying that was even needed idk i just wanna find out if it was an accident or not, since i read the comments but didnt process them yet they seem nice but i have no energy to reply i will rpely later thank you!!!! |
|
|
this might not be very comforting but try to calm down a bit mate, if your friend did that without warning (and possibly without your consent) it's fair that you reacted the way you did, take a break and whatnot, and when you're ready try to talk to others slowly but surely, hell, maybe even apologize to your friend if you want to. My apologies if it doesn't sound very supporting (or empathetic, if you will, i struggle a bit with these type of comments) or anything like that, hopefully you sort everything out eventually, you can also post things here like you just did to vent if that's the right term. P.S: you're NOT a disappointment, you never were and i want you to keep that in mind |
|
|
i think your friends a total creep. your mom is horrible for saying that because you basically got sa'd (or almost did) and she said it was normal. you didn't even consent and he didn't even ask if he could do that do you. i think you should go tell a friend about what's going on, or anyone you trust really. i hope your situation goes out alright in the end. (sorry if this came off as insensitive.) |
|
|
You have absolutely nothing to apologize for, and you are not a disappointment. Saying "stop" was exactly the right thing to do. You were not stupid or weak. You were strong, and your instincts protected you. You never have to wait and let someone violate your boundaries just to "see what they will do." Moving his hand under your shirt without permission was a massive violation. Please stop apologizing. You were put in a terrible situation, and your reaction is completely valid. Focus on resting and doing whatever makes you feel safe right now. 💕 |
Report
