Dear men, I AM A MAN

I can't believe I have to even make this blog because it's on my profile and already has been clarified, but I AM A MAN.

The amount of times a man has added me, DMed me because he saw my interests, and then just assumed me to be a woman is concerning. Listen, I have no problem when people assume I'm a woman at first, but what's not ok is calling me names, blaming me, getting mad at me, and then unadding me because YOU DIDN'T KNOW. Why are you mad at ME because YOU didn't know because YOU didn't read??? Yes, this has happened several times within the past 2 weeks. You're telling me you can go through my entire profile and add me based off of my interests, yet conveniently skip over my pronouns that ARE AT THE TOP OF MY PROFILE. The unadding me after is odd behavior too because this just means you're only adding potential love interests and not potential friends.

Y'all are grown and should know how to read profiles. You should not be getting irate with me when YOU chose to add me. It's not my fault you didn't read and just assumed based on absolutely nothing because the phrases "she/her", or "girl/woman" are absolutely nowhere on my profile.

So, here I am making this blog to be at the top of my profile when I shouldn't be doing that. I don't like the fact that this is my first post on this site.