DRAMA GONE WRONG!!!

Help everyone me and my friend crzyrnnr had a falling out. Let me explain in terms that don't put out to much info. So lock in everyone sensitive topic is coming up. So my friend let's call him jake. So me, jake, and gab (she my gf) has always struggled with self harm. Me and gab has put sooo much work to get out of that mindset. Now jake.... This is going to sound rude but always relapsed for reasons like games. And he would always vent on his bio on discord and we would talk to him and give him things to do and work on. It went in one ear and out the other. It would always be that repeat. So at this point it wasn't new and kinda got annoying which I feel bad for saying. Now mind you he also HAD A WHOLE ANOTHER FRIEND TO HELP AND VENT TOOOO! WE SET THIS MAN UP FOR SUCCESS! And still he'd made gab relapsed MORE THAN ONCE!! So one night I stayed up all night so I could tell my momma and asked her what to do. She said that we could still be friends BUT I have to have STRICT boundaries. So I did, and it happened up again. So me and gab blocked him... Lowkey i had a whole breakdown as I was blocking him on everything and relasped BAD. But it's okay now. Also after we blocked him we were even more happy... And today when I'm posting this he relapsed again. I only knew this after that friend he had for himself let's call her Sally. Sally texted my gf that he relapsed and sally went crazy she went off.  She was saying that she was going to message him to take his life and that she was so done. Like I get it girl calm down. Like most of their friendship was based off of helping jake metally,so I understand Sally getting mad. So my gf went to go talk to jake. Me, jake, and gab were on call today so like... He relapsed the second he left the call!! Or even on call idk!! So as she was texting him and he reveled the fact that he self harmed overA  DAMN ROBLOX OBBY 😡🤬!! So sadly we had to block him again😞.. He also was mad that me and gab my gf were doing good. Like mad for what??. If you made it this far pls send him love I want him to get better without us because apparently being happy is bad for his mental health!! Don't mention this post to him just send it out of love or so he thinks!! He also need friends to understand him so if want a challenge friend him! His user is crzyrnnr. And my gf in the story is 1arrowheadxcv!! Show her love too