I want a love, i want a relationship but at the same time i hate thinking of the bad outcomes, fights, break up or just them overall not loving me like them. PLEASE TELL ME IM NOT THE ONLY ONE
I want a love, i want a relationship but at the same time i hate thinking of the bad outcomes, fights, break up or just them overall not loving me like them. PLEASE TELL ME IM NOT THE ONLY ONE
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Mijo
I get what you mean I usually think about the same thing but with friendships. Like “am gonna be to much?” or “they probably don’t like me” so I just push them away even though I really do want a relationship.overthinking is such a bitch srsly.
discmaan_
I understand you completely. You're definitely not the only one who feels this way.
I like the idea of being in a relationship too, but sometimes I overthink all the possible bad outcomes, arguments, heartbreak, or just realizing the other person doesn't feel the same way. It can be enough to make you hesitate even if you really want that connection.
I guess that's part of being vulnerable. There's always a risk, but there's also the chance of finding someone who genuinely cares about you. It's scary, but I don't think you're weird for feeling conflicted at all. Wishing you the best, and I hope when the right person comes along, those fears won't feel quite as overwhelming ʕ•́ᴥ•̀ʔっ
xXloebminaaxX
when you find someone so compatible the fights and issue that may arise can be easy to fix. wanting love is amazing but learning how to love and LISTEN to someone is the true test honestly.
cherry_check_
I understand that all the way! But when you love someone and date them its better to have loved than not to have loved, just wait until you find that special someone >:3 I'm sure they'll come ur way (˶˃ ᵕ ˂˶) .ᐟ.ᐟ