So recently I’ve realised a lot of my friends don’t actually care about me nearly as much as I care about them; they’ll never text first, they’ll never check in on me, they’ll never ask to hangout and i’m not sure what to do, i’ve tried cutting them off but I can never get myself to do it. Why are people so confusing.
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☆ Ixeshieh
unfortunately i relate to this too, i only consider genuine friends like.. around 2 people, the rest don't even bother to even message me or ask me how i'm doing.
it's genuinely very painful when you realize you're putting so much effort into your friendships more than those said friends do. i'm sorry you're dealing with that.
you deserve friendships where care and effort aren't one-sided, and you shouldn't have to constantly wonder if people genuinely want you around.
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im sorry ur going thru that :( I know communication doesn't work sometimes, and you've said you've tried cutting them off. When this happened to me, I slowly distanced myself from my friends ( after communication failed ), and stopped putting in the unnecessary effort. Stop settling for less !! U deserve better