okay so I've been seeing people talk about Arianna grande's Body and how she looks insanely skinny and don't get me wrong I get it, she dose.. but if I was her and people were talking about me like that I don't think it would make me want to recover, id actually be so proud of myself. and I think thats what people without ed's don't get. we don't take it as an insult but more as a praise. I'm not talking about everyone with ed's but more so myself, for instance if my mom or sister or just anyone in general came up to me and said "omg m you look so skinny, you need to gain weight." id actually be so proud of myself for doing so good and being able to get so so skinny that people actually notice and think to tell me to gain weight.. and if I'm going to be frank I don't think anyone with an ed would ever take someone calling them insanely skinny or sickly skinny a bad way they'd most likely take it as praise 9 times out of 10 and even then I don't get why people find it okay to speak on her or anyones body ed or not. also on top of that they're always so rude about it saying things like "I don't know why she would do this to her self she just looks sick instead of beautiful." at the same timeI get they've never had an ed before so they don't get the mentality she may have right now so thats partly understandable I guess but its also the fact they don't even know 100% if she does have one or not, she could just be on the trend thats going on in Hollywood where everyone is getting super skinny but I'm also not dismissing the fact that there is a higher possibility that she does have one especially with all of the body checking she does..
why do people find It okay to comment on peoples bodies or the fact they have ed's..
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alexanderspoison
i think people are treating her differently in that shes a celebrity and so the way she treats her body is going to influence people (whether she cares about that or not)
some people would comment on her body regardless of if she was a celebrity though and thats not okay
yea no I get it and I also get why they want her to recover but the approach they use isn't the best way to try and help her get into that process and mentality of wanting to recover.. and I was also mainly using her as an example of what people do and say to people they don't even truly know just because they feel comfortable commenting on other peoples weight/appearance and to add ive seen people do what they're doing to Arianna on random teenage girls TikTok's or just random socials in-general and its just baffling to me because its just why do y'all feel the need to and also feel comfortable commenting on them and their bodies, celebrity or not. I just don't get it.. and also some of them don't even try to understand what an ed really does to a person and they just act like it's a choice that they make when it really isn't its a mental thing that never really goes away even after recovery.
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oh i understand. and exactly some people are so inconsiderate to random strangers especially teenage girls
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