Detachment

Im an only child. growing up I kinda used to get really attached to people who I had just met. I would genuinely believe these people were my best friends because I lacked that sibling companionship. Obviously that didn't turn out well since most of them would use my attachment to their advantage and id inevitably would become some kind of therapist and people pleaser. When I became too real and my real emotions came out id just get dropped since I killed that fantasy of making them believe I was this perfect person. Now that im a bit older I realized how crucial it is for young women like me to really understand the art of detachment and killing that people-pleaser inside of you. Being attached to people you barely know will genuinely leave you used or taken advantage of every single time lol and people pleasing backfires in the end because the moment you tell anyone how you truly feel you'll be labeled too faced and left. Anyways I guess the moral of this stupid blog is that to learn how to genuinely love yourself and stop giving a fuck about how people perceive you. She thinks you're a bitch? okay? You probably are. and? so what? lol