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IM NOT A WEIRDO

Okay so uhh, y are there SO many young ppl who want me? 

Ion mind if someone kinda wants me/has a crush on me, but WHYYY it's always ppl who are WAY younger than me?! T_T

Im in a happy relationship, ion want them, and also, im 18.

I have younger friends, like 2 BUT ION DO ANYTHING BAD OKAY? DON'T COME AT ME! 

One of em told me that his classmates who are like 12-13 simp for me SOO hard they even said some dirty stuff and WTF?! 

Even one of his friend simps for me, although she knows im in a relationship, bruv </3 girl get out.. 

Im even a "father figure" to my American friend who is also 14 and his friend also wants me, wtf is happening here? T_T

I was talking w a girl (not romantically, but she wanted me) and I jokingly flirted w her and at some point I was like "Hold on, we're saying very freaky stuff to each other..." so I asked her age and she told me she's 14-15 and right away I was like OH SHIT! And told her to hit me up once she's 18. 

(THIS ONE WAS WAY B4 I MET MY GF IM NOT CHEATING U MORONS) 

But yeah, no h8 to them, they r still young, I wont bash on kids for this. I was told they problably "like" me cuz I'm older and alternative, and that's SOOO different from normal T_T

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Children are easily impressionable.

One of the big problems with pedophillia is that kids struggle to think rationally. they're very likely to make decisions that will affect them forever without being able to think through it sincerely. They think they have a crush on anyone who gives them attention. 


I know when I was 15 I was much more likely to make decisions that could alter the trajectory of my life without actually knowing despite how much i thought I did, without actually knowing the repercussions. 


This post isnt cute funny or sillly it's just kind of weird. I would just stop talking to these people, block them, keep your friends in your age range



I've told this to others too, ion talk to those kids who like me, ion even know them. I hang out w my younger friend irl, who told me that his classmates say such things bout me, and his mum knows about me too. I would NEVER do such things to him or to anyone younger. All of my friends, expect him, are my age range, I've met him at Mondocon thru a friend who is the same age as me. Me and this person js clicked better cuz of similar humour and similar world view and we became good friends. 

And about the girl who I "flirted w as a joke", she told me that she's my age, so I was okay w jokingly flirting then she decided to tell me that she's actually younger and I cut her off right away. I should have stated this in the blog, my apologies. 

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Wow, ppl here took this blog better than ppl did on spacehey. On spacehey they already jumped into conclusions that im a pedophile</3:crazy:

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if a kid ever thinks abt getting romantic say "spiderman won't want that from you"



Alr thank u, I will use that next time🙏 

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would work 100%

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From experience, sometime kids get interested in people that are older because they seem very cool (which by your look, you clearly are). That's why it's up to us to put clear boundaries.



I do keep boundaries w them, I'm not talking w these kids at all, never even met them, never ever wanna meet them. 😭 I js hear these things from my friend, and yes, I can completely understand those kids, I was kinda like that too in a way🥹 

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It's super common for younger kids to get crushes on someone 'new' or 'different.' They’re literally just kids discovering who they are. It’s not a bad thing on their end as long as you keep boundaries and don't do anything wrong. And you're definitely not 'too old' like you think. youre only 18, sooo it's really not weird for kids to have innocent crushes on someone your age



Yes, ik its common for kids to develop crushes on older ppl, im not blaimg them at all :D I keeo boundaries, I don't talk to them, ion even know them personally, don't even wanna get to know them personally. 

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