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idk how to make friends and its been a problem i had as a kid i was never social and always used my older brother to get friends but now no one messages me, how do i get out of this cycle


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You guys talking to people 🙄 

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OMGEE SAMEE, lowkey for me its due to my fricken parents not letting me talk to family or whoop me for having friends (thank god im out the house). I kinda suffer talking to people and always think "what if I'm speaking abnormaly, or what if they think I'm weird" and I just felt put out of place all the time, but now I'm kinda pushing myself to talk to a bunch of people, its draining but worth it. Every time I see someone I have somewhat interest in I make sure to start a convo especially complimenting people. I was also a weird kid growing up, and as soon as I started high school I tried hiding it but it wasn't worth it anyways; just made be sad and out of place. I lowkey began to become the weird kid I once used to be and I dropped the frens who thought I was weird (they were boring anyways). The Judgiest of people are the most boring LIVE YOUR LIFE!! My advice is to talk to a bunch of people (you dont really have to keep them close to you) and be super nice and caring! and if you find friends who are the same as you and super nice and not weirdos keep them!! It might be exhausting to talk to a bunch of people (talking from experience) but make sure you have some 'you time' just to balance things out.

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Same bro 🥀🤸🏼

But I have the problem for our solution . Since we are late comers in social life so it's clear that we have to reach to others , no one's gonna fucking come and ask about us . We have to approach others , ask simple questions and make friendship . 

In online , it's pretty easy , just add some talkative guys and yapp with them . It can help in real life as well to make friends . And don't try to be so much friendly from the start . 

It will work !! 💁🏼✨