Siento que también debes pensar por ti, seguro que te sientes culpable por el entorno en el que vive tu novio, pero aún que duela, no podemos ayudar a los que no quieren. Te recomiendo que hables con tu pareja de manera seria sobre el tema, hablando en como te afecta y como también le puede afectar a el validando sus emociones y no reprimirlas por la culpa-
Did you crash out on him? Or is he always just like that? Lots of possibilities.
I have calmly expressed my needs to him and he continuously refuse to change and he tells me not to care about his feelings because it's not worth worrying about... He's like this because of his mother he's in a really toxic home environment and I feel so bad so I give him so many chances... I've shown him nothing but love and understanding I've put all my energy into this relationship and now there's not much I know how to do...
If you're trying to stay in the relationship with him, I would personally recommend a more tough love route. If he wants to have a functioning relationship with you, he's going to have to communicate properly, and if he won't then there's no reason for the relationship to exist. An abusive relationship is awful, yes, but I cannot (in good conscience) tell you to stay in a relationship where he is not meeting you halfway.
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turquoisetowers
Put him in the woodchipper feet first.
(Joke)
(But is it?)
ZenkoLyne
Siento que también debes pensar por ti, seguro que te sientes culpable por el entorno en el que vive tu novio, pero aún que duela, no podemos ayudar a los que no quieren. Te recomiendo que hables con tu pareja de manera seria sobre el tema, hablando en como te afecta y como también le puede afectar a el validando sus emociones y no reprimirlas por la culpa-
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Did you crash out on him? Or is he always just like that? Lots of possibilities.
I have calmly expressed my needs to him and he continuously refuse to change and he tells me not to care about his feelings because it's not worth worrying about... He's like this because of his mother he's in a really toxic home environment and I feel so bad so I give him so many chances... I've shown him nothing but love and understanding I've put all my energy into this relationship and now there's not much I know how to do...
by ZestFest_1055; ; Report
If you're trying to stay in the relationship with him, I would personally recommend a more tough love route. If he wants to have a functioning relationship with you, he's going to have to communicate properly, and if he won't then there's no reason for the relationship to exist. An abusive relationship is awful, yes, but I cannot (in good conscience) tell you to stay in a relationship where he is not meeting you halfway.
by Gaiety_and_Insanity; ; Report