I just got broken up with for the first time and i'm in so much pain. I thought we loved each other and everything was fine for over 6 months, and he was so sweet to me all the time until he started messaging me a lot less this past week and finally texted the breakup message. He claims it's because we are too different and he thinks I'm a lesbian. I identified as lesbian for many years until dating him, and now I think I'm bi. I thought he understood since he is bisexual as well, but I guess he doesn't. I'm in so much pain. I loved him so much, and he helped me get through my depression, and now I know it was all a lie. he doesn't even have the guts to talk in person or call me, he just texted me and left.
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livingdeadg1rl
hi i know you dont know me but i promise it will get better, it wont feel like it rn and thats totally valid, especially if ur attachment prone. i was in ur shoes a couple years ago and i felt the exact same, all i wanted was him back and didnt know how to cope, didnt wanna do anything for a while either! then slowly finding distractions n talking to new people helped me drift away, ive been in two relationships ( still with the most recent one now) and im in a much better place now, and i dont think about the first guy at all anymore or have any feelings whatsoever, it just takes time and i hope the best for you!! and sorry for yapping..just tryna be helpful hchjsmhbdjc, just let urself grief and heal:)
.t.bel.t.
Let yourself take some time to heal because this is gonna be hard to let go