i literally had to pull out my laptop to post this and im mainly posting this because i need to get it off my chest or i will become an angry person (not literally (maybe)). okay so like five days ago my boyfriend of like two months broke up with me and i was fine because i had mourned the relationship so much while i was in it that i didnt care i was out of it right? whatever. well today i was watching his page because why not well it turns out he had a WHOLE OTHER GIRLFRIEND. and they went on a date while he was breaking up with me. they had gotten together right around the same time we had apparently. at first i didnt care but then (because im nosey) i dug a little deeper. turns out this girl had commented on my posts and its the same girl that when i asked him if he knew her he said "oh shes my sister" now maybe its because i liked him so much that i let that go and didnt look into it but i knew in the end it was weird that he wouldnt let me meet his family? he came over and met my family, met my cat (which is a big deal to me) and met my dads kid who i, as her sister, only get visitation with once every other month. ON TOP OF THAT i told him the backstory about my dad and why he kicked me out and EVERY OTHER THING THAT I HAD WENT THROUGH and he told me he would "love me regardless". i never met his friends or his family or anyone else he knew. i am literally so angry right now and i dont want to give him the satisfaction of me texting him and knowing this is upsetting me. and what makes this even worse is that i tried telling my friends irl and they didnt care. they have ignored me and blown it off as "a small inconvenience". i sit here and listen to all their problems and play therapist and do so much for them and when it comes to me going through something they dont seem to care. i dont want this anger to linger and infest me so i needed to get this off my chest. i dont care who sees this or who responds it just needed to get away from me. thank you for listening
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Sleepy_Skies
Dude its so reasonable to be pissed off about that, I'd be so freaking mad too
but aside from that its not great that ur friends were like ignoring you and brushing you off because even if you cool down, ur feeling sr still valid in the moment and should be taken n seriously. Even if they thought it was a minor inconvenience, they easily could've understood why you were upset and tried to soothe you because anger is an understandable reaciton
no thats so real… like im not even mad abt it atp im js stressed bc i didnt get complete closure from the guy and upset that my ego was hurt by some ugly ahh bum. my friend did end up apologizing tho but like… is that js enough to make it okay? no. but TRUST i will have a major comeback :p
by Kodzz; ; Report
Helll yeah!!! we gon stay tuned for the comeback :D
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Cysper04
Yikes, that's rough.
But I think that's a good thing you guys broke up for good.
You don't deserve that kind of guy, and I think you deserve someone better.
I hope you'll move on from it and if that guy ever wants back then don't let him in anymore.
And I hope you'll learn a lesson from this.
I wish you well. :)
awww thank you so much!! i think its a good thing too and im DEFINITELY not letting him back… im definitely not mad about it anymore it was just an in the moment anger but thank you :)
by Kodzz; ; Report
No Problem. :)
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