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What to do if ur online friend is toxic

Um so I met this person on insta like a little over a year ago and we became rlly good friends and stuff and then uhh they kept venting to me and stuff(which I don't mind) but then something personal happened in my life and I haven't been in the mood to talk to my moots on insta like that and I think they r mad... Idk if they r mad but like they post stories on how they have attachment issues and shit✌️lowkey they infantilse themselves and the last time they said something weird I said something and they got sad. Maybe I'm just overthinking things but Im not sure??  they mention having attachment issues and maybe that's y they r so clingy to me but it's a little weird. Guys idk what to do I like talking to them but I also don't want to go on my phone all the time to talk to them. And I can't open insta without getting messages from them:((

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you are not overthinking and it being an online friendship will make it easier for u to avoid them.

they are old enough to understand you they are not babies even if they have issuses its not your problem they should control themsleves and seek help instade of going crazy on u and blaming it on their health its like me kicking u and saying oops sorry its my anger issues!

say you want a break or just ignore the messages until u are in the mood to reply dont make urself available for them all the time it will get them attached even more 

OR JUST HIT THEM WITH THE HARD TRUTHH AND SAY WHATS ON YOUR MIND! :vampire: 

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Put them down slowly