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guess who just got dumped 5 days before his birthday

he couldnt even wait till after my birthday, or until we actually spoke about stuff since id been saying we should and trying really hard lately


over text as well, couldnt even do it face to face, just a shitty message


im gonna go shower and then idk i just really dont know right now

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Oh shit im sorry! I dont know your boyfriend or how your relationship worked or even you that well, so I dont want to just assume stuff, but it sorta sounds like you're better off(?). Stuff like this is complicated, but he seemed apathetic towards your relationship 



thanks, he was really nice but I think we just didn't communicate enough and he was a bit oblivious to things at times. i feel pretty rubbish right now, but youre probably right and hopefully itll be for the best

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I totally get this, my ex boyfriend broke up with me pretty recently and while it wasn't before my birthday it was before his.. I just kept moving even when on days i felt lost and some days it felt more painful than others. My friends supported me so much thru it, listening to me and giving their own input and I cannot thank them enough for it. Please, if anything just don't isolate yourself. Isolating makes you only feel worse... While it does really suck at the moment, I've become so much more stable and happy ever since and I believe it can be the same for you too...You got this dude :p:



thanks so much, I did tell my closest friend, and then another friend reached out cause they found out, and I have plans with people this weekend, so im lucky I have so much support. it really does suck right now but im just gonna try push on through. I showered and changed my sheets and stuff and I already feel better so I guess its just time from here

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