with my separation from my husband, ive been feeling very cold towards him and kind of out of it. i feel bad because hes still trying but its too late for me. i dont want to anymore, i just want to be done and move on with my life. he was stressing me out so much last night and i ended up staying up until like 3am because of it. he was begging for another chance and i told him no. i told him no over and over again, but he refused no for an answer. honestly, i dont think hell ever hurt me physically, but it was still scary. it felt like he didnt care about what i was saying to him at all and it was frustrating. it was scary for me because what else are you not going to listen to me when i say no, you know? also, he doesnt want to get the house with me anymore, which is understandable but still like why would you wait until ive invested all this money into it? i dont know guys, let me know what yall think.
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fleurssp777
You are not at all being too harsh, he needs to understand that when you say no that's the end of it. You are clearly communicating to him that it's over and it's unfair to you that he's being like that, especially while making you feel unsafe!!! I know it's a bit of a cliche to say but trust your heart even when it's scary, you have a right to leave and move on with your life. I'm sorry ya gotta go through this though I don't the the entirety of your situation but I wish you well and smooth sailing from here!
thanks girl! i really appreciate it!!
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that's completely understandable. if he's disrespecting your no's and boundaries than you have the right to feel unsafe.
I'd recommend telling him that his dismissal of your nos made you feel unsafe and/or uncomfortable. And about the house, that's insane! I'm sorry about your money.
Idk your situation completely but I hope you're alright. Stay safe
thank you so much for your comment! it really means a lot to me and i appreciate that.
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