You may wonder why or some shit like its young
Me personally, nowadays being a teenager can be boring
A lot of people are older now, some still have a mentality of a 12 year old, and so on.
You usually wouldn’t be taken seriously at all because you’re both too young to exist and too old to be young
It’s like that
Especially in friends
“Oh im 13” you’ll either get a gamble
Block or who knows you get stayed upon
If you’re around like atleast 14 you’re liked upon maybe or maybe 16+.
It just so happens you usually get liked if you look older
Or conventionally attractive
Getting friends is also hard
13 is that one age where you can also be considered too problematic to exist specifically because of the age in itself
No one really shits on those older
You either get judged or accepted
Nevertheless
Its a gamble
It’s either oh you’re cool or oh you’re weird
Age is really important in friendships as well
13 is the age you usually get blocked upon for being too young to know shit
Or whatsoever
No kidding, no matter what age I could be i’ll still feel too young to exist
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Mite
When i was 13 I constantly lied about my age because of that as well. But I also didnt hang around people my age online either, and I really regret it because I saw behaviors and stuff that I shouldnt have at that age, and I couldnt really enjoy my childhood because I felt so mature being around older people.
So I think its natural for people to block people younger than them. but then again, I think friendships with big age gaps can also exist. But anyways if you are that young the risk of getting groomed whatsoever is super high so DNI WITH WEIRD OLD PEOPLE.
you mentioned the conventionally attractive part and thats kinda confusing me because yeah just errr , anyways in 4 years you‘ll frown upon new fandoms filled with 13 years olds and think urrrgghh im too old to hang out with 13 years olds olds but we have the same interests. Just enjoy your childhoof and play roblox and watch tiki toki
I never got groomed before, I always just block if they seem weird since from a very young age I’ve watched a lot of crime documentaries and warnings about the internet . Not that I hate other 13 year olds entirely, just a very few. I don’t like lying either, since I do not like the idea of lying my age, but I could lie in other websites??? But here nah. I’ll be safe, don’t worry.To say mature I don’t think im mature or immature. Just there.
Big age gap friendships do exist yes, but being careful of course is a big factor. Yes I have disliked some 13 year olds in school mainly because some of them think it’s ok to joke about serious things. But either way, everything happens at 13.
Behaviors though, none of it really affects me?? Since I’ve seen a lot already, it’s either I speak up abt it or whatnot. I will enjoy being young, as well, a lot of shit ahead me
What does not make me enjoy my youth though is math, maybe ill get better at it since I can’t risk failing.
Also do you mean ticci tobi?
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Oh no I meant that one song idk what its called watching netflix and tiki toki 👀 ok
Take care, you're gonna find cool people and, as you said, have bullshit ahead of you as well. You got this, math can't kill you and what doesnt kill you makes you stronger. I'm also currently struggling with math so never back down NEVER GIVE UP
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