me (15 f) and brandon (16 M) got in our first fight. so how it started was, brandon went out with his friend demetri which broke up with cb for no reason. so i kindl asked him to slowley distance himself from demetri bc im a grils girl and he said "no, the reason she got dumped was 100% her fault, he specifically asked her to be quitet abt their relation ship so his mom wouldnt know and the blabbered her mouth, its not my fault that she opened up her big mouth" and shocked i said ITS NOT?? UR ACTING LIKE YOU HAVENT MADE A MISTAKE BEFORRE? and he said well im gonna hang out with him bc ive known him since i was 5, ive onley known you and cb for 1 year. and i told him WELL THEN GO BE WITH DEMETRI THEN SINCE YOUVE KNOWN HIM LONGER IG and he appologized and hung out with me instead but im still mad about it. was i in the wrong?? well ofc im not bc im a girls girl....... BALLORAAAAAAAA OUTTTTTTT
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you werent wront but u werent right either. You need to know ur friends problems aren't your problems, and making ur bf not be friends with someone bc of somthing ur friend did is unreasonable. ur friend CB got excited abt a rls and told people, but she also knew before telling people she had to keep it lwk ( at least I'm assuming she knew prior). She may not have known it was going to get to his mom, but* that's just kinda what happens when u tell people things, word travels. And the guy's mom probably told him he can't have a gf but he didn't listen.
I don't think anyone is in the wrong; I think it's really just miscommunication and cause and effect.💯💕