It's actually more because I don't know who I am. A lot of people call me "she," and even though it doesn't really make me uncomfortable, I'd honestly rather be called "he," ngl.
But sometimes I do feel like "she."
And sometimes I don't feel like anything at all.
ARGHHH, I hate this 😭
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and this is a perfect example of gender identity causing problems that dont exist just because labels
eizen_8
well, one thing to remember is that your pronouns may not actually match up with your gender!! for me im boygirl (genderflux but only between the male and female genders)
originally i thought i was a trans ftm, but realised i still like "she" pronouns
then i thought i was bigender but my level of like feeling between male and female fluxates.
i also realise when i feel more "male" i hate it when i would get called a dad, it was strictly mother.. or other smaller things despite being both.
its confusing but pronouns can be unique compared to gender, and its mainly based by different means..
and also gender works as a multi scale. in terms of cholthes, i dress strictly feminine. but i honestly act masculine.
by eizen_8; ; Report
That thing about thinking I was trans happened to me too!! I’ve only told one friend about it. I liked being called “he,” but there were times when I preferred “she” too. And because sometimes I feel like I don’t really fit with either one, or even any gender at all, I started thinking I might be non-binary. I’m still trying to figure everything out, but honestly it’s kinda hard sometimes. (｡ᵕ ◞ _◟)
by Fluffyryota †; ; Report