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Maybe this won't be a blog about my cute or silly character stuff. I actually wanted to talk about something that happened to me recently lol, share a little story, and give some final advice.
Maybe this won't be a blog about my cute or silly character stuff. I actually wanted to talk about something that happened to me recently lol, share a little story, and give some final advice.
So, I accepted this girl's friend request on Spacehey. Everything seemed normal, and she messaged me right away. But literally from second one, she started asking way too many personal questions, called me "puppy"?? and kept insisting that she loves "platonic flirting."
I don't really say this publicly since I'm not out here flirting with anyone, but I actually have a girlfriend. Even though I'm a yumeshipper, I have a GF and I love her (she’s a yumeshipper too, she’s literally the best 😝 we're happy, all 4 of us—my girlfriend and I, and our fictional partners). So yeah, the whole thing felt super uncomfortable...
She was also asking for my Discord, WhatsApp, or whatever. Obviously, I’m not giving my number to a stranger, but it got weird when she told me I could send her pics so she could "make outfits for me," and then casually mentioned she likes sexy stuff or nUd3s. She wanted to know my schedule, my personal business... Honestly, she doesn't seem like a creepy old guy because she shared some of her own personal info too, but I absolutely hate when people have zero boundaries and get way too comfortable too fast. She even asked if I was dominant or a bottom?... so weird
I already stopped talking and replying to her. I'm honestly way too shy to flat out cut off a conversation, and it's hard for me to stand up for myself in these situations, but I'm getting better... I just ghosted her, removed her from my friends list, and blocked her.
Guys, don't be shy like me. If you ever feel uncomfortable, just cut off the conversation immediately and stop talking to that person. It wasn't like horrible harassment, but if someone starts asking for risky stuff or trying to pry into your personal life, just run. I know it's super obvious advice, but there are still people out there who have a hard time with this.
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🧁mintea ୭ ᵎᵎ
How disgusting and total sexual harassment :-(
Im so sorry that happened to you! I hope that you reported her as well
Of course! Thank you so much 🥺 It's really sweet of you to care.
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