Has anybody had a friend that was too busy to text you? I don't mean in a matter of days, that would be a silly thing to complain about. I won't hear from them for over a MONTH. So I reach out right? I'm kind, I ask how they're doing, they apologize profusely for not texting me. They were just sooooo busy. Just like the month before, and the month before that.. I must not be getting the memo, is this normal now?? Am I just an impatient person? I get being too busy to hang out, and that's not what I'm asking for, but too busy to text me? I feel like the only way I can be a "good friend" is to keep letting this go, but it's weird. It's sooooo weird. Sometimes I feel like they forget to text me just because I'm not on instagram. It would be easier since IM is a major part of the platform, now they have to force themselves to remember to check their imessages WHICH ISN'T HARD but I understand. I might not feel so frustrated about it if they would just admit that to me, instead of this whole "I've just been soooo busy" nonsense. Rant over.
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secret~!
Talk with them directly. They can always text you like you text them, when people want to do something they will.
But really, talk with them and ask what's happening.
It's not fair you're the only one trying to reach out.
alexanderspoison
lowkey theyre probably just not in a good mental place and dont have the energy to text you. when that happens i tell people im busy. maybe idk ask them about it
This is helpful, it was in my blindspot. I struggle with mental health too but i'm medicated so i've not been in that space for a while.
by fideokilla; ; Report
yeah it gets really easy to forget other people are going thru stuff lol
by alexanderspoison; ; Report