guy problems

soo uhh theres this guy in my year and like... this is so crazy to say but he is absolutely obsessed with me its actually kind of unnerving. For context before i moved to uni i downloaded tinder just for funsies (no actual thoughts of ever meeting up with anyone) and on the first day of uni this guy came up to me and we started chatting and he asked me if the tinder profile was mine. I said yes and he said something like he liked my profile and im like ok?? anyway like 2 weeks later we made out LOL but i was drunk asf.

Anyway ive had like multiple people come up to me and tell me that he has told them he has a crush on me. He keeps wanting to hang out and take me out on dates, and we actually even went on one date last week. Wonderful right? Wrong. I feel absolutely nothing towards this guy, like the only emotion i feel is annoyance.

We dont have the same hobbies, interests or even views on the world. I think he just likes me cause objectively, im above his league in looks and maybe he just wants a good looking girlfriend? The main thing is, I cant date in the state I am right now.

I have no desire for real life relationships, barely even friends let alone romantic partners. Ive expressed this situation (just me not being interested in the guy) to some irl friends from my class and they just tell me to tell him im not interested. Actually, I already said this but then backtracked cause idk i just felt bored. And he believed me and forgave me for ghosting him for a month oops...

He is genuinely a really sweet and nice guy, hes just not my type, like at all. If you get the vibe of my blog, im not interested in any sort of "normal" relationships. They bore me too much. Also, i dont date because of my interests- how do you tell your romantic partner "hey im actually really interested in mass killers and school shooters haha". And keeping it secret wont work, because it didnt work with my ex.

Like I seriously am considering that im aromantic or i just have hybristophilia, because i dont feel anything toward "regular" guys. I keep him around for i guess something to do? for the "plot"? I seriously dont know, but i feel to bad turning him down.

Any tips? What should I do?

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