Had to get this off my chest

I'm extremely lonely. I wish I had a girlfriend or any sort of real social interaction. I haven't had a friend group in years and the only people I talk to on a daily basis are my family members. There are uneducated people out there who say "well why don't incels just pay a sex worker" maybe because it isn't that superficial? Feeling love is the main objective and intimacy, while nice, is ultimately a bonus? And that term gets overused anyway, especially as a pejorative.