haircut in need

Okay y'all I need your help. 

I want a haircut. My hair annoys me sm. My parents are strict, well, my mom, about alternative things and genders. They're really old school. I want to get a haircut that's not really... for one gender yk??? bcz my mom would def not allow a "male haircut" or whatever she says. I thought about getting the og scene haircut and she said okay which i was very surprised but besides, I thought after getting that to shorten it slowly and slowly over time so she doesn't notice. I dont take photos with my family often bcz I dont want to so im not sure if they'd notice yk?? Does anyone have a recommendation for a haircut thats like i said not "male" or "female". idk why my mom makes shit so difficult. If she knew I'm queer I think shed disown me or smth. Anyways, have a nice day and please write recommendations if y'all have them. 

Love ya,

xx