I am happy to have dropped contact with a terrible "Friend" after 3 years

Okay so this Girl I'm gonna call her A. She started in my school round November 2023 and that was in 7th grade (the Swedish school system). She started in the B class (later she ended up switching to our class)she joined our friend group cuz my other friend (E) wo had Spanish (A also had Spanish) talked to her on her first day, and we kind of just invited her into our friend group fully because everyone in the B class were mean to her so we were her only friends. And here are some of the most memorable incidents with her and her crash out 

the first incident with her happed like a month of her being in our school and our friend group had gotten pretty close with her (keep that in mind). It was round Christmas and me and our grade were gonna go on a school outing to the Christmas market in old town and so our teachers had split everyone into groups cuz we were also gonna go do some other stuff (and so at this time she was still in the B class) when the homeroom teacher for the B class announced school outing she had landed in a group of Me, my friend E and another girl in the B class and so my other friend wo was in the B class told me and E that when the teacher had told the groups that A had stood up and said loudly to the whole class "But what I don't even know anyone in that group!!". and that was the start of why our friend group started disliking her.

she also ALWAYS had something to complain about like ALWAYS

There's also one time (I'm not sure why) we were sitting in the hallway on our break and she looked at me intensely (she was not even talking to me) and said "I don't like cleft chins" I don't even have one but there was a period of like 2 weeks when I was insecure about something I do NOT even have.

also I started to listen to Sabrina carpenter round when she released her MV for feather, and so one day our friend group were chilling in a class room and so I casually mentioned that I've started listening to her and 2 of my friends didn't know who she was so i just played feather and then A said "oh her yeah her no I really don't like her music. And when Sabrina released Short n sweet A acted like she was the biggest fan of her but only listened to her most popular songs (she did not even know what Tornado warnings were let alone the existence of her EICS album) and then when she released MBF she said she hated all the songs (when everyone on tiktok hated on the album) UNTILL it became popular on tiktok and then she pulled up saying that she really likes the MBF album (poser)

this was in October 2024, I was wearing an outfit that i really really liked (it was a jeans midi skirt with docs n leg warmers, a black shirt and a brown baby doll cardigan) (this was during my downtown girl era btw) and so our friend group were just standing by the lockers and I remember that i turned to my friend E and just told her "isn't my outfit like really cool today" and E obviously agreed and stuff BUT then A had to chime in and said "Bria.. I'm sorry to tell you this but your outfit is actually like really ugly today"...... WHAT? also this girl claims to be a "Fashion girly" (her only Idea of what fashion is is Stockholm style VS angel Adriana lima) and obviously after that i felt really bad about my outfit.

Now there is WAYY more but I don't want this blog top be too long so i'll skip to this term with the major part

So now at this point everyone in our friend group just does not like her but we can't do much about it because we were her only friends. so this was in February this was round the time we had parent teacher meetings about our grades n all so we had half days, so it was after our last lesson for that half day and i had a meeting that day. Anyways so I was walking by when A, Tea (we love tea she is so awesome n cool shout out to tea) and this girl in 8th grade EB, they were talking and EB showed the song "Careless whispers" by George Michael and A said "No I don't know him" and then I chimed in with "what? don't ya know why he is are ya like uncultured" (obviously specified that I meant Pop culture). Then I WALKED to my locker, after that she disappeared and went home i guess and then I stayed in school. so like 15 minutes pass and I looked at my phone and she had sent me a tiktok "me when someone calls me uncultured but I'm literally fluent in 5 languages" and under a message that said "Sister stop calling me uncultured for every little thing" and with that emoji with hearts round it (this was the first and only time i had said that term btw). And I obviously thought she was unserious when he came with that approach, so I gave her the same tone back and I had specified 2 times in that "argument" that i had meant pop culture. And then we had the most unnecessary argument over TikTok when she could've followed me to my locker and talked to me in person.

The day after we had half day again and so tea came over to me and said that she had gone and complained about me to her on WhatsApp and tea had not taken her side because it was a stupid thing to be mad about. but in her complaining she had talked bout some "I had disrespected her whole family by saying that" don't know how that corelates to pop culture  but sure go ahead  " and that she "hates me" and does not care if she has to be alone in school now and then the whole day she had ignored both me and Tea. there was even a point when Tea tried asking her for help during a class and A had replied with "Idk ask BRIA instead". and then again we had half day and sum of our friends had decided to go eat lunch outside and so Tea approached A and asked her "hey we are gonna go out to eat you wanna come?" and A replied with "No.. I'm already left out" bro what we JUST asked you and then when I got home I got added to a SNAPCHAT GROUP with her and EB and there she was writing some whole ass paragraphs about "that I had ran away from her and that's why she didn't talk to me in person" ( I had walked like 5 steps to my locker) and according to her Tea had ignored her (Nope). And the next day she pulled up and had acted like NOTHING had ever happened (she had also reposted the most performative reposts ever that were so painfully obviously searched up it was sum "I choose peace" crap)

And after that little incident our whole friend group REALLY did not like her and so we tried to distance ourselves from her but that DID NOT WORK cuz she was following us around EVERYWHERE WE WENT like a meep in meep city.

so our graduation arrives and so we all kind of said goodbye and stuff (atp she had unfollowed me on tiktok after that george michael incident) and Tea had sent me screenshots of her reposts it was some "Now that schools over I just wanna say I hated every single one of you" bullshit. and then Tea sent her a message asking why she was reposting that instead of just talking about it to us and she said "what makes  you think the reposts are about you" (Hmm yeah maybe cuz we were your only friends) and then they had an "argument" where she put herself as the victim and changed the topic as soon as tea gave a valid answer and she ended the conversation when tea asked why she had still hung out with us if she really hated us that much.

and then later my friend K sent a polite and neutral message to her via my phone talking about how she needs to fix her attitude towards everyone (even teachers, she is o mean to teachers she voice recorded a conversation between her and our home ec teacher cuz she was mad that she got an E on the test (her kitchen was messy, she burnt her rice and she had left a tea towel on a stove plate that was on)) and that she wishes her well going forward in school and then she replied with the most meanest and rudest message ever talking bout how Im not anything special in our school and I have no business in how she acts with people and blocked me.

so yeah that's the end of that but there is more but I would be sitting here all night writing this blog and honestly I am happy to have dropped all contact with her cause she really is not a good person also apparently she had planned since 8th grade to ghost us as soon as school ended (cuz now everyone's going off to gymnasium so we aren't gonna be in the same school anymore)