I don't like my family.

my mom always tells me what I can and cant wear. I've been wanting to buy these cute Mary Jane's, but my mom tells me that I cant wear them because they are "too much". My mom has to approve of every purchase I make even if I spend my own money and she always threatens to throw stuff out if she doesn't like it. She is always yelling at me for little things like leaving a dish in the sink. On the other hand she doesn't yell at her son only when he doesn't do his chore and that's it. I get that he's 18, but could you at least stop yelling at me and talk normally? I have these episodes where I just want to lay in bed and I don't go out of my room only when I need to use the bathroom, my mother doesn't like when I do that, but I told her sometimes I need to be alone or I'll just snap. She didn't like that and she kept complaining to me about her life.  My brother is the worst. he laughs at me anytime I try to talk about myself or what I like.My mom wants me to be just like him. she wants my room to look like my brothers room and I hate it. My brother is okay, my mom is bad. I hate how she puts these expectations on me when I already have a lot of stuff on my plate.