AS IN MY PRONOUNS not in the unwoke way lmfao.
for me,
- she/her is a hard no, always will be.
- he/him has been like....... okay I guess. it was the lesser of ALL evils, it's the only set that didn't make me feel sick being referred to with it.
- before today I used to hate they/them more than ANYTHINGGG. in the past (and sometimes still now) I'd get degendered with it by people I knew, including friends, when I only used he/him. especially when I was a transman, it hurt the fuck outta me and made me feel like nobody in my life actually saw me as a dude. it really tainted the idea of using they/them for a good while.
- and to consider all options, I don't think it/its or neos are suitable either.
but suddenly like..... I feel like I enjoy the idea of exclusively using they/them?? perhaps it's been enough time since I was degendered often, those wounds have healed and I'm not as put off by it anymore
constantly switching my pronouns feels like it's annoying (it's certainly annoying ME) and it's probably hard for people to keep up with. but I'd like to experiment with this to see if I actually like it, so for the time being I ask everyone to refer to me as they/them
ultimately I don't want to be perceived as any gender at all, I've came to this conclusion a year ago. I do use the agender flag but I mostly prefer the term genderless. I've been on T with the goal of appearing and sounding as androgynous as I can IRL. I don't believe this will change, it's the first time I've tried on a label (or lack thereof) and didn't feel some sort of impostor syndrome :') so yay. I PROBABLY have my shit figured out finally, it only took me almost 21 years.
genuinely I think I've identified as every letter in lgbtq and more at different points of my life, I collected them all
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Cockroaches Overnight from Home?
ever thought of no pronouns/nameself 💭
"Raine is currently experimenting with Raine's pronouns"
"Max has been trying out new pronouns, please respect Max's choices"
That’s just fucking annoying
by Kathleens; ; Report
no need to be rude (´･ω･`)? pronouns are a form of self-expression. saying "Max went to max's favourite store to buy maxself noodles" takes about the same amount of effort as saying "They went to their favourite store to buy themself noodles"
by Cockroaches Overnight from Home?; ; Report
Kathleens shut yo mouth cuz I know multiple nullpronominal people and they r awesome. but yea I have thought about it before and that option personally isn't for me ^^
by RainieRAWR; ; Report
What the fuck does that mean kek
by Kathleens; ; Report
No, pronouns are apart of grammar and English, not a form of self expression.
Do you not think this would trouble dyslexic and ESL people ?
by Kathleens; ; Report
if you don't understand a concept then wouldn't it be better not to comment about it at all lol. my page is for ALL queers, neopronouns and all, including the ones that you find "annoying". if you don't fw this then honestly just see yourself out rn
by RainieRAWR; (edited); Report
I understand it, I just think it’s stupid.
by Kathleens; ; Report
Go up to someone IRL and tell them you’re “nullprominial”
by Kathleens; ; Report
you're literally just a kid who thinks having edgy takes is revolutionary and ur tryna be so different, in reality you're embarrassing yourself. hope you grow out of this
by RainieRAWR; (edited); Report
You’re saying knowing full well this was made on the internet by edgy deviantart teenagers.
Whatevr man, I hope you grow out of this shit. None of this is real or should be taken seriously.
by Kathleens; ; Report
the "Go up to someone IRL and tell them you’re “nullprominial”" can go for any pronouns really. A good portion of people are not willing to respect you in any way if they perceive you as not a (perisex) cissexual
by Cockroaches Overnight from Home?; ; Report
“Cis sexual”
by Kathleens; ; Report
^An0ther_Ali3n^
I have a feeling you may like Vietnamese because literally everything we refer to is gender neutral, even people 💥